I Got Hung Up on Today!
November 19th, 2008 • Related • Filed Under
 I was totally shocked!
Hasn’t happened in a very, very long time – and wasn’t a professional call.
A woman called me wanting advice.
- She heard me speak several years ago.
- Thought I could help her out.
- I took the call.
Seems she was booked to facilitate a chapter retreat.
- Focus: Getting more members involved.
- Issue: She doesn’t know a lot about getting more members involved.
- She’s a facilitator – not a subject matter expert.
So she called me.
At first I thought she wanted to book me to run the retreat.
- “No!” she gasped.
- SHE was doing the retreat.
I asked if she was looking for content or help creating the retreat.
- I wasn’t sure what she wanted from me.
- I didn’t know her.
- What was she asking for?
She blew up, “I can tell you aren’t into this!”
Huh?
“You are not excited about the opportunity to help me!”
- I tried to explain my energy was lower than normal due to being tired from last minute Lazy Leader  book stuff.
- She wouldn’t hear it.
“You obviously aren’t interested in this!”
- Click.
- She was gone.
- Just as I was about to point her to ASAE’s Decision to Volunteer work.
Grandma always said you attract more bees with honey than vinegar.
- My hang up caller must have missed the memo.
- I feel sorry for the association she’s going to be working with.
Makes me think of chapter leaders…Do you use honey or vinegar when asking others to help you out?
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Originally posted @ Cynthia D'Amour on Leadership and Life
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